It would take too long. Suffice it to say, anytime I advocated for Lesbian or WBW space or spaces, I got shouted down, but THAT is where I thrive. Trans " women" are male. In all but their appearance they act male and assume male privilege, and in their appearance very few on any level pass as Female. There is ALWAYS something off. The way they move, act and dress is often overboard or a throwback. Instead of deferring to lifelong Females, our experiences, our pain, the discrimination we have faced, the sheer oppression, our Female Tribal ways if you will, they utterly dismiss us. They dont come into our Tribe with respect, honor our boundaries, our pain, like someone entering a Native Tribe or foreign culture who had been invited in to partake of their ceremonies and their ways...instead they impose wanting all the glamour but none of the hard work or drudgery or danger or difficulty.
They don't march for Prochoice or access to birth control or abortion, because they NEVER will have to worry about those things.
They dont accept Lesbian boundaries when we say NO, or you cannot be one of us, we will accept you here in some womens spaces, but you are born male, so not in our sex lives, be with bisexual/ pan/ queer women instead.
The FTMS want to remain in the Lesbian communities ( or rather the shell of whats left of them) rather than get out and live their " male" lives as earlier FTMS did. It saddened me they transitioned making every Butch that much more alone and vulnerable as our Butch communities got vacated.
No they INSISTED we allow them to stay even WHILE they insist on male pronouns, facial and body hair and lowered artificially induced voices from T, strapped down or surgically removed breasts and growing sexist male attitudes displaying anger and rage from the use of T or hypersexualized behaviors. Loss of their beautiful Female souls, covered up by the hormones and identifying WITH males instead of US.
FOR ALMOST 3 DECADES Ive endured watching this grow and grow and grow while Lesbians and us Dyke Butches get left behind, our Dyke communities infiltrated, coopted, and torn to shreds, while the pharmaceuticals psyches, Docs and surgeons make $$$$ off of us, then turn to tomboy girl and sissy boy children...
Saturday, May 4, 2019
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