I have absolutely no interest in opening my mysteries to men it's enough to think about organizing a coffee or a lunch with this pagan community which is thoroughly mixed and there are no women only spaces.
I will defend my women born women spaces rituals Amazons and Dianic communities to my dying day and beyond because women need it.
There are plenty of men who have men only space all the time and especially in regards to religious situations like Catholic priesthood Tibetan priesthood so on and so forth and women are merely nuns. same with orthodox Jewry and so much for the men and so little for the women there plenty religions around the world that are patriarchally run by and for the men where women are 2nd fiddle.
And don't get me started with those born male who are crashing into our spaces over and over again most who haven't even fully transitioned and still retain a penis.
As far as a red tent ceremony goes it's about menarche, Menstruation and menopause all of these are female mysteries.
The whole opening up question is again women being codependent to males so if this is what you want to do I will gladly leave this group.
There is plenty of healing work women need to do with women on this planet and there's plenty of healing work men to need to do with men to hold them accountable for their violence against us and against our mother Earth and Her creatures. And their near worship of violence and warmongering.