If you could care less about your partner’s genitals, then you are
bi/pansexual or ‘queer’ in the modern sense. YOu are NOT Lesbian. Many
of us Lesbians/Dykes WANT to ONLY BE SEXUAL with bio females that
possess a Yoni, that they have worn all their lives. Call yourself
queer, call yourself whatever, but if you sport a penis, a ‘ladystick’
or however else you want to call it, then you are NOT a Lesbian or a
Female, no matter what your cosmetic appearance may be.
Every Lesbian I personally know only date/have sex with those who
have possessed a Yoni/Vulva/Cunt/Vagina all their lives. I don’t care
about infinite details of who possesses an XXY an XYY, or anything than a
double XX chromosome, or any other infinitesmal detail that gets away
from Dyke reality and being of lusting, loving and WANTING another
Dyke/Lesbian whose been FEMALE all her life and possessed Female
anatomy.
Cis is a hate word for us, it is NOT innocuous, and while so many in
the trans movement engage in both Lesbophobia and often misogyny, they
are not called upon it. Do not use Cis for us. While I have been born
female, I have NEVER fit into ‘female roles’ or appropiate
heterosexually defined ‘female gender roles’ am not ladylike, and have
been tomboy graduated to hardcore Butch when I came out. So, no, I’m not
‘cis’ by YOUR definition. Nor do I want to transition to male, being
Female Proud. Femaleness is innate, due to our biology and biomorphic
BEING. It is Females I want to be around, to cavort, to ritual, to have
sex with to connect with on ALL levels. It is patriarchal to INSIST we
must have the born male in our midst at all times, or those who want to
be male(FTM). And to keep calling us by a word we REJECT. WE get to
define ourselves.
Not only have I talked to many Lesbians about this, I have talked to
women of color and women of color Lesbians about this, and they feel
similarly. They don’t want to be defined by white culture or the white
man, and THAT is what you are doing when you keep INSISTING on calling
us ‘cis’ when we have rejected that identity and terminology. It shows
basically you do NOT respect bio female Lesbians/Dykes, our culture, our
way of life, our Beings, and our Herstory. You want to supplant it with
your own revisionist depictions of it….and you have done countless
revisionism to our Dyke herstory. We reject that too. Countless Dykes
have REJECTED heterosexual gender roles for eons, for all or much of
their lives, and countless Dykes, especially Butches are doing their
best to hold ONTO their femaleness and be Female proud without being
pressured to ‘transition’ to cure their problems in patriarchy.
You cannot find your freedom through surgeries, or hormones or a
pill…or by revising others’ herstory, culture, or truths, and coopting
them. So us bio female Dykes will stand up for ourselves and FOR OUR bio
philic Female loving bio Female DYKE BEINGS. If you choose to
misunderstand us, that’s your business. But you will no longer be
permitted to coopt us.
-FeistyAmazon
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